Dating a loaded guy
has long been a fantasy for some
single women.
In fact, your own mother may have even quipped that it's
just as easy to fall for a wealthy man as it is a poor
one. And high-income,
single men
(those earning $104,000 and up, as defined by the Tax
Foundation Group in Washington, DC) are on our radar
even more thanks to such shows as "The Hills", "Gossip
Girl," and "The Millionaire Matchmaker."
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Plus, statistically,
affluent men are on the rise. According to the 2007
Wealth Report, there are more richies in the world than
ever:
9.5
million people are earning at least $1 million
annually
9.5 million people are
earning at least $1 million annually, and 94,970 are
pulling in at least $30 million each year. Here's the
lowdown on dudes with mad bank.
Many
Well-Off Men Aren't Making Money the Old-Fashioned Way
In the past, you would
expect ambitious moneymakers to be MBA holders firmly
entrenched in the financial world. "These days, though
many young guys work for big-risk, big-reward hedge
funds, more and more are successfully combining their
creativity with their technological savvy," says Haitao
Li, PhD, professor of finance at the University of
Michigan. Here are some high-profile wealthy Web
entrepreneurs.
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Mark Zuckerberg, 23,
founder of Facebook...$1.5 billion
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Andrew Gower, 29, founder
of Runescape...$216 million
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Chad Hurley, 30, cofounder
of You Tube...$300 million
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Andrew Michael, 29, founder
of FastHosts...$87 million
You'll
Find Them at Hotel Bars and Upscale Steak Houses
"When rich guys travel,
they stay at posh hotels because they expect the best of
everything," says Janis Spindel, matchmaker for wealthy
professionals. And at dinner, they don't settle for
anything less than grade-A beef, so four-star steak
houses are prime ground for high-powered business types.
Before sitting down to rack up the bill (on the company
expense account, of course), they'll probably hit the
bar first.
They Live
in Some Surprising Places
The research firm Teasley
ranked the following United States cities as having the
best ratio of rich,
single men to women.
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San Francisco Bay Area,
California
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Anchorage, Alaska
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Washington, D.C./Baltimore,
Maryland
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Sheboygan, Wisconsin
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Naples, Florida
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Minneapolis/Saint Paul,
Minnesota
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Rochester, Minnesota
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Boston, Massachusetts
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Fort Walton Beach, Florida
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Dallas, Texas
They Have
Gold-Digger Radar
Most people want to be
loved for who they are, not what they do. And that
includes wealthy men. "Gold diggers do not give off a
cute vibe," says one successful 27-year-old investment
banker. "They feign interest in your profession, only
hang around when you're headed to the most exclusive
restaurant or club, and then often invite nine of their
closest friends to tag along."
They Feel
Entitled to Arm Candy...
Yeah, it may sound shallow,
but according to Donna Spangler, author of "How to Get a
Rich Man", cashed-up guys think they deserve to be with
trophy women, or women they deem prizeworthy. Says
Spangler: "They want you to be extremely beautiful, be
able to plan social schedules, and have good manners."
...But
They Don't Want to Marry a Dummy Either
Eighty-nine percent of
high-achieving (and presumably high-earning) men report
that they marry or would like to marry a woman who is
just as or more intelligent than they are, says
Christine Whelan, PhD, author of "Why
Smart Men Marry Smart Women." Also,
92
percent of men who describe themselves as
"successful" or "very successful" say they are
more attracted to women who are also excelling
in their careers.
92 percent of men who
describe themselves as "successful" or "very successful"
say they are more attracted to women who are also
excelling in their careers. Go you.
Brunettes
Pull More Cash-Flush Dudes
Blond is reputed to be the
most alluring hair color, but according to a survey by
Lycos, 62 percent of the world's top 100 billionaires'
wives and girlfriends are brunettes. What's still
unclear: whether these rich men seek out darker-haired
women or if there are just more of them out there (fair
hair is rarer).
They Pony
Up, So to Speak
Polo Ralph Lauren is the
brand most likely to be purchased by wealthy male
shoppers when buying goodies for themselves. The rest of
the list includes Calvin Klein, Armani, Coach, and
Burberry.
Reprinted
with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.
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