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Love Quiz- Is the Search for Good Looks
Holding You Back from Finding a Great Match?
What is love? What
is attraction? Why do we love someone? Why do we say that we love
someone? Why do not we say that we like someone or are getting
attracted to someone? This is all because love is becoming a common
word to be used for all kinds of attachments and relationships.
Have you quizzed yourself about how much looks matter to you in love?
1. An physically unattractive person tells you they attracted to
you: what do you do?
-
ignore the
persons looks and try to find out if he or she has other
qualities in plenty?
-
tell them
nicely you are not interested?
-
run for the
nearest door
-
run for the
door and tell all your friends the next day?
2, A drop-dead
gorgeous man or a knockout babe tells you that they have fallen head
over heels in love with you, what do you do?
-
blush furiously
and accept an immediate date?
-
thank that
nicely but put off a date until you get to know them better?
-
grab them
ferociously and give them a big kiss?
-
grab them
ferociously and give them a big kiss and tell all your friends
about it the next day?
Okay, this quiz
above is meant to be somewhat humorous, but how did you see yourself
in the mean sprite that ran for the friends in both scenarios?
Quiz yourself about
your relationships. Many of the relationships break because we are
attracted by looks but as we get closer we find the other person
difficult and break the relationship. It happens with most of us.
You say you want
love, but does love come in only one kind of package? We are all
attracted to good looks. Very rarely do we pause we give points for
other important qualities in a logical manner. After all, we are
looking for a date or a mate, not a business partner. It's easy to
look at an attractive person and say-I am in love.
Quiz yourself and
ask: Am I you missing out on a good thing because you are putting
too much emphasis on looks? Besides, looks are extremely subjective.
I know women out there who think Robert Redford, Brad Pitt, Denzel
Washington are unattractive. (Okay, maybe they need psychological or optometrical l help, but you get the point.)
If you are looking
to develop a relationship, be sure that you are not deducting or
adding too many points for looks.
We may deny that.
But the main attraction is always great looks. Quiz yourself about
this and probably you will come to know more about what are your
priorities in relationships and love.

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